THIS WEEKEND IS VALENTINE’S DAY!!!!!
I just can’t wait.
Valentine’s day is my absolute, hands down, FAVOURITE holiday!
I wish it was a public holiday, with the whole glorious day off to just enjoy. Or the whole week. We need more week long celebrations in this country.
I’ve written previously about some of the big shocks of my early adulthood. Another was the realisation that many people hate Valentine’s Day. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE?!?
Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love! What on earth is offensive in that?!?!
Even if you have some curious distaste for love, Valentine’s Day also involves chocolate, for goodness’ sake! [note] Now, if you are allergic to chocolate, I admit you have a legitimate gripe. But Valentines Day is a day for creativity. I have faith in you. [/note]
Okay, so you don’t happen to have a boyfriend / girlfriend / spouse this weekend.
Is that really the ONLY class of person that has ever loved you?? The only class of person you can love?
Don’t you have a mother? Or maybe your mother makes Joan Crawford look like Mother of the Year. It happens. But I know there is at least one person, somewhere, whom you can celebrate, and who can celebrate you.
Everybody capable of love has at least one colleague, friend, family member, teacher, student, or associate somewhere who loves them or whom they love.
At least a little. I refuse to believe differently [note] And if you have a serious personality disorder rendering you incapable of love, then I refuse to believe you’d be bitter about not being paired on Valentine’s day! Bring a seasonal thank you note to your shrink and enjoy the day. [/note].
So go out there and wish them a HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!
Send a frilly pink card to your Great Aunt Matilda. (If you’re really brave, call her up and ask her to tell you about her first crush.)
Take everyone in the office a piece of dark chocolate. One of the very few things I miss about working in a real office is being able to bring in cookies or cupcakes or flowers for everyone on Valentines’ Day. Sure Valentine’s Day is on Sunday this year; no one will mind an extra day of love.
Or bake some festive cupcakes for the neighbours. Afraid the hot new guy in 11B will get the wrong idea? Then give cupcakes to only the little old ladies in the complex. WANT the hot to guy in 11B to get some ideas? Start up a conversion as you include him in the cupcake celebration!
Still feeling contrary?
Then just give cupcakes to crabby old Mrs. Macgruder in 4B, who is always in a bad mood. Big fluffy ones with lots of pink frosting. Go guerrilla if you need to, and drop them off anonymously – it’s not like she’s going to admit to appreciating them anyway.
Can’t bake? That’s what flowers are for! Or a short handwritten note.
Simply a smile and a Happy Valentines Day! can go a remarkably long way.
Even if you hate the world just now, you ought to at least love yourself, so prepare some simple yet decadent treat just for YOU. Take yourself out to your favourite Thai restaurant, have a long hot bath, go for a run in the really nice park across town – whatever YOU love to do FOR YOU.
And if you happen to be a Christian, then seriously – where you gonna top THAT kind of love? Share a cupcake or a fancy coffee with God and enjoy the day!
Worst case scenario, bring some seed to the birds in the park or hand out a few single carnations to strangers on the street, grocery baggers, or your Barista, smiling and saying “Have a happy Valentine’s Day!”. You’ll be amazed how much joy it brings.
Whatever you do, CELEBRATE!! Valentine’s Day is NOT a time for bitterness.
And have a happy Valentine’s day.